Leadership Isn’t Loud—It’s Clear
Let’s talk straight. If you’re not a good communicator, you’re not a good leader. Period.
Leadership isn’t about charisma. It’s not about position. It’s about clarity and clarity only comes through intentional communication. If people don’t know what you mean, where you're going, or why you’re doing what you’re doing, they can’t follow you. If no one is following you, you’re just taking a walk.
A lot of leaders assume they’re being clear because they understand what they’re saying. Great leadership doesn’t hinge on being understood by you—it hinges on being understood by them.
This is especially true in ministry. We’re called to lead people toward Jesus, so then our words better reflect His. Jesus didn’t waste breath. He used stories, questions, intentional silence, and presence to move people. He always spoke with intention.
“Just as I have loved you, you are also to love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another” John 13:34–35 CSB
Love requires communication. The kind that’s clear, consistent, and courageous. Jesus modeled it. His leadership was marked by bold truth and relational clarity.
Jesus told His disciples,
“Let your ‘yes’ mean ‘yes,’ and your ‘no’ mean ‘no.’ Anything more than this is from the evil one.” Matthew 5:37 CSB
In other words, don’t complicate what should be clear. People shouldn’t have to read between the lines to know your heart or your direction.
Poor communication breeds confusion. Confusion breeds distrust. And distrust kills momentum.
Patrick Lencioni—one of the most trusted voices in organizational leadership—says it this way:
“If people don’t weigh in, they won’t buy in. And if they don’t understand the why, they won’t follow the what.”
That hits.
1. Great leaders speak plainly, not cleverly.
The Apostle Paul, writing to the church in Corinth, was crystal clear on what kind of communication builds people up:
“I would rather speak five words with my understanding, in order to teach others also, than ten thousand words in a tongue.” 1 Corinthians 14:19 CSB
Paul understood that communication wasn’t about how much you say, but how well people understand what you say. His leadership was rooted in clarity because the church’s health and direction depended on it.
Andy Stanley puts it this way:
“People will not remember everything you say. But they will remember how clear you were.”
Clear beats clever every time. If people are more confused after hearing from you, you’re not leading—you’re just talking.
2. Good communicators respond well and write clearly.
In our digital world, leadership shows up in emails and texts just as much as in meetings and sermons. If you’re slow to respond, unclear in writing, or hard to follow, you’re eroding trust—whether you realize it or not.
The Apostle Paul told the Colossians,
“Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you should answer each person.” Colossians 4:6 CSB
That includes written communication. Texts. Emails. Group chats. Calendars. Be thoughtful. Be timely. Be clear.
Both in business and ministry, responsiveness builds credibility.
My personal communication practice? I try to respond within 24 hours—48 at the latest—but usually same day. Not to impress anyone, but because I’ve learned that delayed responses create unnecessary friction. People start wondering:
“Did they get my message?”
“Are they ignoring me?”
“Do I even matter?”
David Allen, author of Getting Things Done, says, “Your mind is for having ideas, not holding them.”
Oh boy is he right! I don’t want to carry open loops all day. I’d rather close out the matter, move it forward, or acknowledge it so others know where things stand.
In fact, Harvard Business Review reported that “leaders who respond within 24 hours are viewed as significantly more trustworthy and competent than those who delay without explanation.”
People feel valued when they feel heard. So even a quick, “Got it, I’ll respond soon” can go a long way.
And let’s be honest—if we preach hospitality and presence, but leave people hanging in our inbox, we’re sending mixed messages.
3. Good leaders point people somewhere, not in circles.
The Apostle John wrote,
“This is how we are sure that we have come to know him: by keeping his commands.” 1 John 2:3 CSB
If people are going to follow Jesus through our leadership, they need to know the direction we’re going and the reason it matters. Communication must lead somewhere. Purposeful. Focused. Anchored in God’s truth. Anything else is just noise that leads to confusion.
Brené Brown says it clearly:
“Clear is kind. Unclear is unkind.”
Leadership that circles around issues, hides behind spiritual talk, or dances around the hard truths isn’t leading. It’s evading— and that’s not the way of Jesus.
I’ve led for decades in business and ministry. I’ve seen this firsthand. Whether you’re casting vision, navigating conflict, launching or guiding a ministry, or just trying to disciple someone— if you can’t communicate it clearly, you’re going to lead poorly.
This doesn’t mean being flashy. It means being real, simple, consistent, and direct.
Author John Mark Comer reminds us that “clarity is kindness. Complexity can feel deep, but it’s often just lazy. Jesus spoke plainly. So should we.”
Leadership that can’t be understood will never be followed.
So here’s the question to ponder:
Do people in your life know what you’re trying to say, where you’re trying to go, and why it matters?
If not, it’s time to slow down and recalibrate your communication. Leadership in everything you do depends on it.
The most important thing here to remember is this: Jesus is the Word.
Let’s be people whose words matter, too.
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